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Mature.Sunday, August 02, 2009, 11:06 PMHow mature are you? After going through life for 18 years and more in my life, i came to know there are many different stages of maturity that I exprienced through myself. If i were to go in deep since toddler, people would question the credibility, so let's start at teenage! The very first step to maturity. well people, childish. Childish is known as - –adjective 1. of, like, or befitting a child: childish games. 2. puerile; weak; silly: childish fears. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/childish well, that's is defined by the dictionary. People especially those at the age of 13 - 15 label actions like, going crazy at a party, playing games at camps and literally playing as childish. And they engage at activities like, giving "advices", "reflecting" their thoughts on life, thinking how "miserable" their life is, as mature. I say fuck you. By not playing, going crazy, engage in fun activities at the age of 13 - 15 is considered childish or making yourself deprived of enjoyment, at least for me. Why? Don't bullshit with me, how miserable can you get when you can blog? receive education? Have friends? have at least a steady? Lose your first kiss etc? How much advices can you give when you have yet to exprience anything else in life other than thinking you are very miserable in life, you practically made another person as miserable as you think you are. Please act your age and nothing more! No one is forcing you to grow up so soon, besides, by thinking so 'maturely' at the age of 13 surely, it doesn't allow you to do things legally at the age of 18 or 21 right? ------ next step! :D at around the age of 16 - 17 people have exprienced somethings, love lifes...work expriences...friends falling in and out..probably some small knowledge of handling family problems.. but at this age, people hit this level of maturity, which is engaged at majorly. Offering advices, based on your expriences. I personally done that..alot of times. haha. Well, at this stage of maturity, you tend to want people to live for the better, not see them rot. Hence you start to have this mature stage of thinking, "I want to let them feel ..... (wadever words that can make them feel better than what they are feeling now)" I personally haven't seen much of the defects in this stage compare to the previous one, cause i personally like this stage alot...so hmm well probably share it again once i know about it's defects. -------- My stage of maturity now. Well, at some points of life, you would care-less. I remember seeing her put this, "No communication doesn't mean I don't care, it meant that i care too much" Similarly! Caring less doesn't mean I don't care, but rather, if learning by going through the processes in your life could benefit you at large, why not? People may shrug it off at being cold, ruthless, heartless, no compassion. But don't just look things at the surface, people still offer advices to the one in trouble when they need it, but they know, words are just so much they can do. How long can your friend in trouble depend on you? let me post you this question : A hungry man is by the river, would you give him a fish that is readily cook for him, or will you teach him how to cook and fish? should i say anymore? :) what level are you now people ? :D |