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The Man,
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Saturday, September 06, 2008, 12:12 AM--- I had been keeping this inside me for the longest time and I guess today’s when all hell break lose. This had been haunting me since last year and I feel so trapped by it. I made a police report but was told that there was nothing they could do. In short, the guy had the thrill of his life and got away scot free. I went to Seoul some time in October 2007 with a guy friend. His name is John; John Chew Kian Wui, except that John isn’t his official name. He was working for Singapore Airlines back then in their ITD (IT Department?) as a software engineer (he claimed to be transferred - anyone working in Singapore Airlines HR?) and moonlighted as a Manulife agent of sorts (he has apparently left the company). To make sure that the correct person is identified, he used to drive a dark-blue Opel van and recently changed to a sedan. He’s probably in his early 30s now. He was a pretty nice guy - the kind of person that I’d define as decent and well-mannered. He’s probably an “everyone’s friend” and got along very well with our circle of friends. “Well-liked” is a term that I’d use to describe him. In October last year, I needed to make a trip to Seoul because of an accident that I had when I was there previously. I was needed back in Seoul to settle a compensation claim and I thought it’d be nice to have someone go with me. I asked my girl friends if they would be able to come along but most were busy with their work. I was a little apprehensive, but I thought John was probably an “OK” person to ask along. After all, he is known to be a nice person. So, apparently he wanted to take a trip out of Singapore and agreed to go to Seoul with me. I went ahead to book a twin bedroom suite - which basically meant that there are 2 separate beds in the room. To my horror, the hotel apparently didn’t receive the reservation or had a mix up of the reservations and the twin-bedroom suite was only available for 1 day. At US$60 a day, I didn’t have the budget to book 2 rooms and agreed to have a double bedroom after the first day. The trip went on well and I finally settled my compensation. It wasn’t a lot, but that wasn’t the point. On the last night in Seoul, I was adamant to get to sleep early because I didn’t want to miss the flight the next day. Moreover, John snores and he snores as loud as the drills at the road works. I lost sufficient sleep because of his snores on the first few days and I didn’t want to miss my sleep again. Half way through my sleep, I thought I felt hands moving along my back. Being a light sleeper (I’m usually a light sleeper when overseas), I woke up and felt fingers running along the right side of my back. With my back facing John, I didn’t know what to do. I kept very still because I was afraid of being assaulted. He’s easily 1.5 times my size, not to mention being taller than me. Soon enough that stopped but I didn’t dare go back to sleep. Then I felt it. The distinct feeling of a sausage-like object rubbing against my bottom. I couldn’t take it any more and screamed and jolted up. John then pretended to be shocked and asked me if I had a nightmare. I didn’t answer him but took the blanket and went to the small table where my laptop was. I signed in on MSN and turned on my webcam and told my friend what happened. I turned on the webcam facing me throughout the night, on one hand worried that something worse might happen and on the other hand at a lost of what to do. The next day, I pretended that nothing happened and boarded the plane. On the flight back, John admitted that he touched me the night before and mentioned that “our relationship will no longer be the same”. I have no idea what he meant by that but to me, I was angry with him. I was angry that he betrayed my trust that I had in him as a friend. He went on to justify his actions that he has high blood pressure and mildly diabetic. To me, that was pure nonsense. No illness - for that matter, not even getting cancer can justify his actions. He is a downright despicable person. Back in Singapore, I spoke to my friend and lodged a police report. Apparently, John is getting away scot free because this incident happened in Seoul. I am now back in Seoul to lodge the police report but they said they can only file it. In short, John had a free lunch. Till this day, I had been haunted by this incident everyday when I sleep - unable to have a proper rest because I would wake up in the middle of the night with the same scene replaying itself over and over and over again like a broken recorder. I felt violated and dirty and started losing trust in all my guy friends. To me, every single guy friend of mine has a hidden devil in them - molesting me in their dirty minds. My friend eventually intervened at my request to speak to John on this matter. His respond was shocking. He justified his actions by saying that “he’s a guy and he has needs”. So I guess that gave him the right to outrage my modesty; that gave him the right to touch me; that gave him the right to violate me. After all, “he’s a guy and he has needs”. I am now at my wits end and I really don’t know what to do. I am writing to a lawyer in Seoul to meet up with him on how I can bring criminal charges against John, but John jolly well knows that he’s going to be a free man. He has no worries and he’s denying flat that it ever happened. He no longer has a conscience and the nice, well-liked guy that I used to know turned into a devil over night. After all, he’s a guy and he has needs. |