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Saturday, May 03, 2008, 10:14 PMis the topic i will be talking about today. i don't know how many times have i actually talked about it already, i always find something new onto this topic. ----------- As i talked with some of my classmates over the other days, i realize that everyone of us, I MEAN EVERYONE, need to adapt to how everyone around you reacts to the way you communicate with each other. taking for example, me. I am a sucker at initiating conversation, hence i would normally probe into the past to dig something out to talk, however i also realizes that many people didn't like it that way, probably because those were the past that they once hated, and is now rather believe that their past do not exist and would refresh him or her self. I suddenly thought i was rather insensitive, in fact, i always am. I am not a sensitive guy, hence i tend to generalize. that was a fatal flaw, hope everyone will pardon me for this. next. relationship communication ------------- I always have this belief that, if you like this person and is willing to woo her then go ahead no matter how not confident you are. but i was wrong. As i am talking to one of bro in tokuAsia via msn, i realize one thing through the span of his situation. he(rabbit) like this girl(sarah) and has hopes of him being together with her, but even so, he still feels a little inferior with her, i don't know why but it does actually collapse his confidence for awhile. Not just that, he feels that the 'frequency' between the two of them is very different, its very difficult to explain but even though the girl is very aware of his feeling, the girl still purposely avoids it, and pair him up with different girl. It actually flares him up. etc etc.. quite a long story. hence i came up with this new perspective. if u dun feel good, or confident with that girl. change.unless you are very willing to work towards that. then it is worth encouraging if not walk half way, take u turn.waste time, waste effort. and i realize that this path actually is pretty self destruct proof. however if that person is going to feel inferior for the rest of his life, i think the person should need to wake up his idea. its a two way thing to me. some can take on my new perspective, some may take on my former perspective. its really complicated. well..guess thats about it, next time when i come out with other realization i will post |