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Saturday, July 21, 2007, 8:27 PMwhat do i mean by saying that? well let's just say we have the colour pink placed in front of two different people. one will go "oh my bloody hell! I WANT IT!" while the other one will most likely go "yucks". This is a very simple form of explaining how a relationship fails or works. surprise why i say that? Think about it.... finish thinking? well in my opinion, i feel that whenever counselors or those TV show tells people that, communication is the key to a successful relationship meant that it is to put yourself in your partner shoes. NORMALLY, in a failed relationship, the way they do things are for example, you put the colour pink in front of the couple, the girlfriend will go "I LOVE IT!", while the boyfriend goes "yuck" and the next thing you will expect is the couple will DEMAND their partners to be in the same opinion as they were, thus, leading to a breakup after that. (i do not need to go into details, do i?") however in a successful relationship, in the same case scenario,the colour pink was placed in front of the couple the comments was the same, BUT! instead of dragging their partners into their view, they would put them self in another shoes, and understand that their partner dislike, likes the colour pink for a reason, and respected each other decision. so i came up with this conclusion that, in a relationship we have to understand that we are all individuals,we can't expect our partners to be identical to us in thoughts and opinion, thats boring. So yea, end of blog post. |