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Friday, June 23, 2006, 11:37 PMday 1 - reach chiang rai at the time 11.25, first thing first go to jiu song( a ceremony where people would gather at a place where their dead relatives are held), mother go there le cry as she pray to her dead grandmother , while i was praying to the grandmother i said this "everytime i come back chiang rai you send me off, this time my turn to send you off to heaven." then went around to greet others relative, they seem very happy to see me since it's been 3 years i went back, was thinking, "are they serious? someone close to them have passed away," but later i realize that she died peacefully and not because of someone other thing else, which i then later revealed a small smile :) then went back my mother home for a good rest to get prepared for next day second day - time for chut shua ( where a event was held to bring the dead one to a site for burial or cremation) i can't remember the whole process, but i do remember before we leave the jiu song my mother take a look at her picture and tears welled up, and smile pad her shoulder, "she go heaven become god no need be sad"i told her this, and she smiled and we walked walked walked, then suddenly got fire crackers! from what i tihnk is for scaring away evil thing from getting close the sacred body, then halfway they throw lemon fruit inside with money, my mum told me that this bring good luck everyone was busy collecting it. at the place, ritual was performed, it started to rain, the young monks (they just beocme monk for one day) then step up for ritual. about 50 minutes later the related to her one all go close and give ourl ast prayer, we then invite all those who attend to give their money coin (same as money paper) then they open the lid where everyone started to cry except for me and my brother, my brother then told me, "we shouldn't be sad she just slept she did not died," i nodded in agreement, and my mother and her cousins and sister brother, father mother pour cocnut water on the head and she was then cremated, fireworks was release. 20th june - the day where we go pray to the ancestor, because of the recent event we have no moeny to invite people to sing for the ancestor and the sky rain everyone left not long after something EXTREMELY UNBELIEVABLE HAPPEN TO MY GRANDMOTHER! she was a lady who doesn't smoke but she start to take a cigar and smoke, and she suddenly become a man, and een talk like a man, therefore my mother call this pheonomenon as "she was posses by our ancestor", the 'ancestor' then say why did everyone left so early today? and started to cry, i was dumb folded, and the 'ancestor' smoke a total of 6 cigar, 8bottle of beer, incredible, and the ancestor walk towards the house where we build and pray it, he then tell us "BYE BYE! " in english, then my grandmother start to vomit and fall unconcious next thing she wake up and walk toward us as if nothing happen, "what happen?" she asked my mother =/ 22nd - day where i saw my old friend, let just say this friend have wasted the youth of hers, and now have a child, went out together see a movie. 23rd - day of departure, mother cry everyone cry except me once asgain haiz=/ well guess thats all still got alot of thing but i lazy to type hehe... |